My parents accepted in time that they were wrong to some extent and asked for forgiveness and a releationship with me.
I can only releate to you through my parents expiriences although I do not fully understand them.
Both my grandparents were cruel people who were extremly brutal with my parents (my german granddad actualy was a nazi)
Worst of all, neighter actualy accepted being wrong and feeling sorry in any way.
My english granddad actualy tried to in instruct my dad on how to raise me insisting he didnt give me a beating often enought.
Yet my parents never really managed to get lose of them, especialy my mother.
I came to the conclusion that these people were just "people of their time" and that for them understanding how modern people think and work isnt really possible.
And therefor it isnt always possible for them to notice when something they did was actualy wrong.
I can only releate to you through my parents expiriences although I do not fully understand them.
Both my grandparents were cruel people who were extremly brutal with my parents (my german granddad actualy was a nazi)
Worst of all, neighter actualy accepted being wrong and feeling sorry in any way.
My english granddad actualy tried to in instruct my dad on how to raise me insisting he didnt give me a beating often enought.
Yet my parents never really managed to get lose of them, especialy my mother.
I came to the conclusion that these people were just "people of their time" and that for them understanding how modern people think and work isnt really possible.
And therefor it isnt always possible for them to notice when something they did was actualy wrong.
