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RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...)
March 1, 2013 at 11:11 am
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I'm not really talking about subservience, in my eyes. There is no outside authority that says I should submit to him or that it's my place, it's just the natural role I feel I should fill. It's just how I see marriage should be. I do feel like the father should be the head of the household but that doesn't mean we wouldn't be equals. My fiancee was surprised too, and a little apprehensive about it. I can't understand why this would be subservience. The thing is, he doesn't expect this right I give whole heartedly, and that's exactly why he deserves it. I'm not saying I'm going to be subservient in any way (I'm too head strong), I just feel that as the wife my job is to support my husband always. His decisions are mine too, but if we differ in our opinions after long discussions, I'm willing to follow him wherever he chooses to go, so long as he knows my opinion on the matter. Because I trust him, because I know that he is capable and worthy of making big decisions--with my help, always. I'm never going to let him make them alone, of course. But my marriage is far more important than a disagreement. In life there isn't always one path leading to the destination, there's many. Just because we don't go my way doesn't mean it's not the right way, you know? I grew up living disagreements, and I don't want that for my children. Doesn't mean I'm going to give up my equality, he wouldn't have that and neither would I. It just means that I feel my role in marriage is to support him in whatever endeavors he wishes to seek just as he does for me, and in the end I'm not going to draw a line in the sand if I don't think it's 100% the right way to go--because I could be wrong. I'm not talking about day to day decisions, just in the extreme situations in life that tend to come up. Again, not subservience in my eyes to trust and love my husband with all my heart.

As for being stuck in nasty ways--my dad isn't a branch of anything. He just read the bible, and interpreted it as he did. Extremism was taught to him when I was a baby, yes. By many different denominations. But he's not the only christian I've known to interpret it that way, either. Men from all sorts of denominations (even Baptists) that I've known (even pastors) expect this right in their marriages and some like my father demand it with a finger on the bible. The level of demand differs from person to person, and I'm not saying that all their marriages are unhappy or that their wives are treated unfairly. It's just sad to me that it's assumed the wife is to submit to her husband because of what a book says on the matter. In the end, now my dad lives a very lonely life. I'm the only person on this earth that talks to him.
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Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Greatest I am - February 18, 2013 at 2:58 pm
RE: Women. - by thesummerqueen - February 18, 2013 at 3:53 pm
RE: Women. - by cratehorus - February 21, 2013 at 8:04 pm
RE: Women. - by Greatest I am - February 28, 2013 at 11:01 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls. - by Baalzebutt - February 18, 2013 at 4:02 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls. - by yobbyy - February 22, 2013 at 10:27 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by LastPoet - February 19, 2013 at 6:59 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by A Theist - February 19, 2013 at 9:34 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by DeistPaladin - February 23, 2013 at 2:08 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Ben Davis - February 19, 2013 at 8:46 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Violet - February 21, 2013 at 4:33 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Ben Davis - February 21, 2013 at 11:34 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Vera - February 19, 2013 at 9:50 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by downbeatplumb - February 22, 2013 at 12:15 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by thesummerqueen - February 19, 2013 at 10:03 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by TaraJo - February 19, 2013 at 9:48 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Darth - February 19, 2013 at 10:12 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by TaraJo - February 20, 2013 at 1:13 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Minimalist - February 19, 2013 at 10:18 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by renew - February 19, 2013 at 10:28 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Cinjin - February 20, 2013 at 2:53 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Minimalist - February 21, 2013 at 1:17 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Darth - February 20, 2013 at 1:26 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by renew - February 20, 2013 at 8:04 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by A Theist - February 20, 2013 at 8:46 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by renew - February 21, 2013 at 1:19 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Cato - February 21, 2013 at 4:50 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by renew - February 21, 2013 at 9:08 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by A Theist - February 21, 2013 at 6:25 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by KichigaiNeko - February 21, 2013 at 6:26 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Cyberman - February 21, 2013 at 2:45 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Violet - February 21, 2013 at 4:52 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Cyberman - February 21, 2013 at 9:03 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Kayenneh - February 20, 2013 at 3:13 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by A Theist - February 20, 2013 at 3:46 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by TaraJo - February 20, 2013 at 6:46 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Cato - February 20, 2013 at 3:20 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Nine - February 20, 2013 at 6:57 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Baalzebutt - February 20, 2013 at 7:22 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by TaraJo - February 21, 2013 at 1:29 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by A Theist - February 21, 2013 at 6:27 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Violet - February 21, 2013 at 2:41 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Ben Davis - February 21, 2013 at 6:13 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Violet - February 22, 2013 at 3:49 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Ben Davis - February 22, 2013 at 6:23 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Violet - February 22, 2013 at 10:39 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Ben Davis - February 22, 2013 at 11:09 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Cinjin - February 22, 2013 at 1:16 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Mystical - February 22, 2013 at 4:07 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Violet - February 22, 2013 at 4:38 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by fr0d0 - February 22, 2013 at 4:44 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Violet - February 22, 2013 at 4:47 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by fr0d0 - February 22, 2013 at 7:25 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Gilgamesh - February 22, 2013 at 4:57 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Darth - February 22, 2013 at 5:23 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Gilgamesh - February 22, 2013 at 3:06 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by thesummerqueen - February 22, 2013 at 10:37 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by cratehorus - February 22, 2013 at 12:22 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Cinjin - February 22, 2013 at 11:13 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by thesummerqueen - February 22, 2013 at 11:23 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by WinterHold - February 22, 2013 at 11:47 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Violet - February 23, 2013 at 3:48 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by thesummerqueen - February 22, 2013 at 11:48 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by WinterHold - February 22, 2013 at 12:01 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Cinjin - February 22, 2013 at 12:18 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by WinterHold - February 23, 2013 at 1:17 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Annik - February 22, 2013 at 2:38 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by thesummerqueen - February 22, 2013 at 12:06 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by thesummerqueen - February 22, 2013 at 12:20 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Cinjin - February 22, 2013 at 3:13 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 22, 2013 at 5:03 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Cinjin - February 22, 2013 at 10:26 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Gilgamesh - February 22, 2013 at 10:32 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Greatest I am - February 28, 2013 at 12:14 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by fr0d0 - February 22, 2013 at 3:22 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by CapnAwesome - February 22, 2013 at 5:25 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 22, 2013 at 5:28 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Cyberman - February 22, 2013 at 5:37 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 22, 2013 at 5:43 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Cyberman - February 22, 2013 at 5:56 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Mystical - February 22, 2013 at 5:27 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 22, 2013 at 5:36 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Mystical - February 22, 2013 at 5:39 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 22, 2013 at 5:50 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 22, 2013 at 6:02 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Cyberman - February 22, 2013 at 6:56 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 22, 2013 at 6:44 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Cyberman - February 22, 2013 at 6:58 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 22, 2013 at 6:57 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 22, 2013 at 7:06 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Mystical - February 22, 2013 at 6:59 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Mystical - February 22, 2013 at 7:09 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by fr0d0 - February 22, 2013 at 8:09 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 22, 2013 at 7:22 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 22, 2013 at 7:34 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 22, 2013 at 7:57 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 23, 2013 at 8:16 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Cinjin - February 24, 2013 at 4:12 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 23, 2013 at 8:51 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 23, 2013 at 9:04 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 23, 2013 at 9:23 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 23, 2013 at 9:36 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 23, 2013 at 11:12 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 23, 2013 at 11:25 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 23, 2013 at 11:30 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 23, 2013 at 12:04 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 23, 2013 at 12:34 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Psykhronic - February 23, 2013 at 12:37 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 23, 2013 at 12:39 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Violet - February 23, 2013 at 2:16 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 23, 2013 at 2:42 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Violet - February 23, 2013 at 2:56 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 23, 2013 at 3:10 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Confused Ape - February 23, 2013 at 3:43 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 23, 2013 at 3:52 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by WinterHold - February 23, 2013 at 1:49 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Kayenneh - February 23, 2013 at 1:56 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Gilgamesh - February 23, 2013 at 1:59 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Psykhronic - February 23, 2013 at 2:11 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Gilgamesh - February 23, 2013 at 2:12 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by WinterHold - February 23, 2013 at 2:23 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Confused Ape - February 23, 2013 at 3:05 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Psykhronic - February 23, 2013 at 2:07 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by WinterHold - February 23, 2013 at 2:33 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Psykhronic - February 23, 2013 at 2:25 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Kayenneh - February 23, 2013 at 2:25 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Psykhronic - February 23, 2013 at 2:39 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Kayenneh - February 23, 2013 at 2:57 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by TaraJo - February 23, 2013 at 3:27 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Gilgamesh - February 23, 2013 at 3:49 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by TaraJo - February 23, 2013 at 4:24 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 23, 2013 at 4:34 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Gilgamesh - February 23, 2013 at 4:36 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by TaraJo - February 23, 2013 at 6:43 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Violet - February 24, 2013 at 5:33 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Gilgamesh - February 24, 2013 at 5:31 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Violet - February 24, 2013 at 6:55 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Cinjin - February 24, 2013 at 7:43 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Violet - February 25, 2013 at 5:18 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Mystical - February 24, 2013 at 1:49 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by popeyespappy - February 24, 2013 at 2:00 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 24, 2013 at 8:54 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Mystical - February 24, 2013 at 9:09 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 24, 2013 at 9:21 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Esquilax - February 24, 2013 at 10:04 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 24, 2013 at 8:23 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Mystical - February 26, 2013 at 3:12 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 26, 2013 at 9:39 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by fr0d0 - February 26, 2013 at 6:08 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 26, 2013 at 8:20 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Mystical - February 27, 2013 at 4:40 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 27, 2013 at 9:26 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Mystical - March 1, 2013 at 12:11 am
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RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Cyberman - February 24, 2013 at 8:22 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 25, 2013 at 9:14 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Cinjin - February 25, 2013 at 10:34 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 25, 2013 at 10:36 am
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 25, 2013 at 12:03 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 25, 2013 at 12:40 pm
RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by John V - February 25, 2013 at 1:27 pm
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RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Mystical - February 26, 2013 at 3:52 am
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RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by Mystical - February 26, 2013 at 5:58 am
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RE: Women. You have men by the balls.(...) - by KichigaiNeko - February 27, 2013 at 7:07 am
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