Born this way, baby

[My imaginary friend is GOD]

What catfish seems to be saying is that you should have experienced nonsexual attractions as you grew up, as pretty much everyone does. Didn't you?

Not at all. I viewed everyone around me as friends, and that was as far as it went. I do not recall ever having non-sexual attractions to either gender before I reached puberty. Of course, my case is not the same as everyone's. I know of homosexual men who had infatuations or non-sexual attractions with girls as they were children, but as soon as puberty struck they realized that they were sexually attracted to men instead of women.

That's why catfish is saying he thinks you were born asexual.