(June 4, 2013 at 12:56 pm)ideologue08 Wrote: I actually think it's rude to get in the way of a domestic dispute, if you think there's going to be violence then call the police.
You're welcome to your opinion of course. For me, it's a question of "what can I live with?". If the asshole escalates to physical violence (as he has done many, many times in the past), and I do nothing to prevent it, can I live with that decision?
Regarding it being a domestic dispute, these people are family to me, and I to them. More so than the abusive ex. The only reason he is even in the picture is because of the custody agreement involving her 13 year old. The other son has disowned him and wants nothing to do with him.
The guy is a sperm donor with a court order, taking an opportunity to revisit terror on two of his former victims, not part of a domestic unit.
Calling it a domestic dispute is laughable.