I can't say anything of your experiences. I do know that, in discussions with Tiberius in the past, he has favored a flat tax, which would ostensibly be used to provide social services of some variety.
I have also encountered a fair number of libertarians who have anarcho-capitalist viewpoints, I don't really think they're entirely exclusionary. But, I've met more who favor a reduction in government to some greater or lesser extent, rather than complete elimination.
I have also encountered a fair number of libertarians who have anarcho-capitalist viewpoints, I don't really think they're entirely exclusionary. But, I've met more who favor a reduction in government to some greater or lesser extent, rather than complete elimination.