Nothing wrong with small s selfishness. I'm glad I only had two. Both were demanding of my time and still are to a degree. For all that I am so proud of them and love them dearly I am also proud of the fact that they are getting very independent. Which = more ME time!
"The Universe is run by the complex interweaving of three elements: energy, matter, and enlightened self-interest." G'Kar-B5



