Americas child death shame

[thesummerqueen]

Women are worse in this regard because they want you to join them... so they can judge you... Women can be bad about this, moreso then men in my experience.

I've been thinking about this...I think the difference lies in that men are taught not to give a shit about what other people think, whereas women are shown by example to seek advice and consensus...I see women around me all the time saying "Well what do you think?" like they can't trust their own judgment. Men don't do this. They listen if someone offers something, but they don't usually stop and ask.

So women seek to gain a sort of power that vindicates their decisions by judging someone else's advice as inferior.