Damn my libido!

[Edwardo Piet]

make special efforts to make her happy, that's a nonpushy way of "asking again"

I don't make girls happy though. I bore them; any "special" efforts usually cost money and I don't have money.

Besides, if I can't make friends happy how can I make girls happy?

I have a friend who won't go out with a guy until he's jumped through a whole set of hoops, but a guy managed even after she said no, he just kept consistently doing little special things.

Girls are people, too.

That's exactly how I treat them. I think that might even be part of the problem though, I'm seen as "just a friend".

And we like to be with guys who are nice people.

If you stick around and continue to be nice after being rejected, she may very well change her mind because you're giving her something else to evaluate.

Am doing. Girls are a friend first and anything else second to me. I am nice regardless of rejection, but either way I seem to get nowhere.

Asking repeatedly without any action never works (well .... it does with some people, but it's annoying), so it's good you don't do that.

Thank you.

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There are 3 billion women in the world. You only need one that works for you.

It's taking me this long to get the first one, which won't last.