(January 8, 2010 at 2:10 am)TruthWorthy Wrote: Wouldn't the objection to someone hitting on your misses in the first place have an emotional motive?
Such as love for your misses, fear of losing her, anger at the "other guy" for trying it on her . . . I think these must be rational to some extent.
Yeah - definitely. The emotional reaction is fed off of your assumptions or predictions (using those wonderful mirror neurons) that you are inadequate or will "lose" your partner.
But as some say, if you love something, let it go. If it comes back, it is yours, but if it leaves, it never was yours to begin with.
