(August 7, 2013 at 2:24 pm)HalcyonicTrust Wrote: That's true. But they aren't; do you have any ideas how I can get you closer to providing soulutions?
If you have any details or specifics that you think might help, let us know. Like what kind of women are you going after? Perhaps that could be part of the problem.
(August 7, 2013 at 2:24 pm)HalcyonicTrust Wrote: True. Besides I've tried that. First of all it's false and I'm usually more interesting when I'm not trying to be, secondly no girl finds me interesting either way anyway.
The worst thing you could do is to pretend to be something you're not. Try to work on changing yourself in ways that give you attributes that people are generally drawn to. For example, work on building up self-confidence.
(August 7, 2013 at 2:24 pm)HalcyonicTrust Wrote: Because they never show it and reject me if I ever show it to them. Because they always have a reason to not talk or do anything with me.
Because they say "I don't like you that way".
"You're just a friend to me".
"You're not my type".
"Just so you know, we're only ever going to be friends and that's it".
Perhaps it isn't that they don't find you interesting. Maybe you come across as desperate, or your approach is wrong. I think the first thing you need to do is stop with the self-berating. You have to become comfortable with yourself before others will.
Even if the open windows of science at first make us shiver after the cozy indoor warmth of traditional humanizing myths, in the end the fresh air brings vigor, and the great spaces have a splendor of their own - Bertrand Russell
