Both your definitions have mine in them, the most obvious being the second one:
the state of being male or female (typically used with reference to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones)
Gender's meaning is interchanged with sex sometimes but it's becoming more uncommon. Also, the dictionary is not prescriptive. And you clearly lack knowledge of linguistics.
And really you think intersex people should be aborted? BOY does Turkey produce some gems, I'm not even sure how much more I want to deal with your absolutist mentality.
the state of being male or female (typically used with reference to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones)
Gender's meaning is interchanged with sex sometimes but it's becoming more uncommon. Also, the dictionary is not prescriptive. And you clearly lack knowledge of linguistics.
And really you think intersex people should be aborted? BOY does Turkey produce some gems, I'm not even sure how much more I want to deal with your absolutist mentality.