Men Women Sex and Temptation

[Cinjin]

There are 3 billion women in the world. There are women who are better conversationalists than your wife, or prettier, or funnier, or better in bed, or whatever. You knew that and you married your wife anyway.

Now you've met one such woman. Nothing has changed. You married your wife knowing such women existed. And guess what - there are women better in some ways than this new one.

Grow up and honor your commitment.

Everyone who has ever gotten a divorce needs to grow up?
Two people have to live an unhappy life because YOU think that "grown ups" should just accept their lot?
Furthermore, I've done nothing. Is an adult not allowed to ask for advice for fear he might be told to "grow up?"

Stop spending time with other women. Even if it doesn't go to the physical, you're still cheating on your wife by giving away time and attention that she deserves, and that would likely improve your relationship if given to your wife. Most married men should stick to male friends.

I didn't plan this conversation with this woman. I didn't have a clandestine meeting with her. I didn't cheat on anyone, nor did she offer me a stay in her vagina. Calm down little sheep, men are allowed to talk to women here in the real world.

Write a list for us of all the good things about your wife.

If you need change, change a room in your house or take up a new hobby.

Biblically, a man and wife become one flesh. Personally I think there's a lot more to that than meets the eye. I believe that if you're not happy with your wife, you're really not happy with yourself.

Biblically?!? If I did what was biblical, I'd kill a gay man, stone my daughter, and have sex with my sister. Please keep your immoral religion out of my thread please. Furthermore, I've known many christians (even preachers) who have gotten divorced and been very happy with their life.

Divorce shouldn't even be a thought since there's a child involved and there's no abuse involved.

Your opinion is noted ... and rejected. Universal rules like that should have no place in the highly complicated matters of relationships. People don't fit into a nice neat little box and only a brainwashed religious buffoon would follow such self-imposed laws without consideration.