(September 24, 2013 at 12:11 pm)Kayenneh Wrote:(September 24, 2013 at 12:00 pm)Drich Wrote: Fidel's dad is not a forum member. if he is he was not mentioned by name or screen name.
You dumb schmuck, that was not the matter. You used Fidel's dad to emotionally push his buttons, so the member we're talking about is Fidel.
I did not mention fidel's dad, till FIDEL brought him Up as some sort of trump card to prove his point!
Fidel used his dad's situation to underscore what fidel believes. Which makes fidel's dad apart of the subject matter being discussed. If Fidel did not want his dad's situation to be discussed critically then he should not have used his dad's situation to stab home his point. If he were looking for sympathy, then he should have said I'm looking for support or sympathy. Or post this situation in a support forum. That is not what he did. He used his father as a speaking point to drive his personal feeling/message about life and death, at which point he dad ceased to be protected by any spoken rules of conversation.
there is no innocents here. so if you do not want something to be critically examined then it should not be discussed here period. I share about 90% of my life here and all of it has been sent through the meat grinder. For that 10% I do not share, will Never be discussed as that part of my life is not up for discussion. anything else is fair game.
So to should be the rules for everyone else here not just 'Christians.'