Hi!
Most everyone I grew up with went to catholic school, and immediately 'lapsed' at adulthood. I really wouldn't sweat the particulars much...kids end up doing their own thing, often in spite of their parents anyways. So be honest and forthright and cross your fingers.
Now, if you just want to make a scene and 'push back' those pesky relatives, maybe take your daughter to Burning Man or other decidedly non catholic experience of your choice. Just a (devious)thought.
Most everyone I grew up with went to catholic school, and immediately 'lapsed' at adulthood. I really wouldn't sweat the particulars much...kids end up doing their own thing, often in spite of their parents anyways. So be honest and forthright and cross your fingers.
Now, if you just want to make a scene and 'push back' those pesky relatives, maybe take your daughter to Burning Man or other decidedly non catholic experience of your choice. Just a (devious)thought.