And Hells come back to haunt me

[T.J.]

Why is it unfair for God to punish for an eternity, would it actually be fair to reward for eternity and then not punish for eternity?

What he is punishing is unfair because he set up the circumstances which led to such a need in the first place.

How is it you believe that Christians pick and choose what they read from scripture? Are you judging others by what you practiced?

Observation. The bible says a woman is not to speak in the temple. How many women speak during church? How many women are preachers?

They're always quoting scripture about how God condemns homosexuality and then ignore all the other things he condemns in the bible, or condones for that matter. Such as slavery. How many Christians condones slavery?

In another thread I mentioned I did not think you had learned much while you were in church, this above statement you made reassures me of that. The whole statement is wrong.

How is it wrong and in which area? Wouldn't it be the church's fault for not teaching me correctly? Why are so many churches teaching different things and interpreting scripture differently? Why doesn't someone step in to correct this?

I agree, fear is no way to have a relationship and, Jesus shows us that love and peace are the foundation of a relationship with God.

And his father sends you to a place of torment if you don't. But sons are usually more rational than their fathers.