RE: do u think people think im lame for not having a gf?
November 20, 2013 at 11:45 am
(This post was last modified: November 20, 2013 at 11:50 am by Doubting Thomas.)
(November 19, 2013 at 9:49 pm)Zazzy Wrote: To toot my own horn in a thread about Leo: I am a KILLER wingwoman. I am GREAT at meeting girls and then introducing them to my male friends and then getting a headache and having to go home, so sorry, too bad.
That's awesome. I wish I'd known someone like you when I was young and single.
To Leo: Don't worry about not having a girlfriend. I was single for almost 10 years before I met my wife. I know what it's like to be lonely, but don't let it consume you. Women can smell desperation and over-eagerness, and it puts them off. Just find confidence in yourself and even though you might be completely nervous and have butterflies in your stomach, act like the date doesn't matter. That's not to say act like a jerk, but don't come off as "OMG this first date has to work because I really need a girlfriend!" A first date is just getting to know each other, and there shouldn't be a lot of pressure on the both of you. You'll date a lot before you find "the one," and even then you might be in a few relationships before you find the one you want to spend the rest of your life with.
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