do u think people think im lame for not having a gf?

[Clueless Morgan]

Good for you! Social mores are changing - student debt is crippling, and we're all living a lot longer. I think what you're doing is making perfect sense.

It makes sense to me, and that's all that matters. I think you have to recognize your personality traits and stop living to make other people happy or to simply make yourself more interesting to other people.

From the outside looking in, I'm a total loser. From the inside looking out, I'm navigating my life in such a way that I can best achieve my goals and live a life I think is worth living.

I only think you're a loser because you're a cat lady instead of a dog lady (or a bird lady). I'm the crazy bird lady who sometimes goes out with bird shit on the back of my shirt, therefore I whip your cat-lady ass for loserdom.

Them's fightin' words, Zaz! Watch yourself, and just remember:
My cats can eat your birds.
:p

I do concede, though, that it's possible that you're more loserly in the pet department. I've never left my house with bird shit on me, but I have accidentally sat on chocolate and gotten an unfortunately located chocolate stain on my butt.