(February 28, 2014 at 1:00 pm)JesusLover1 Wrote: My dad doesn't try to scare me with hell, my whole life he's said I'm going there. But he's certainly thought me that it exists, and there are people going there. And I guess I worry he's right about hell (because he seems sooooo certain about it) but is wrong that I'm not going. But he is NOT at all abusive to me because of that.
Oh yes, it's definitely unintentionally abusive. For example, my dad suffered through the same fear as a child, and chose not to pass it on to me - thus reducing the level of abuse.


