"If you're not a Feminist, you're a Sexist"

[MJ the Skeptical]

I never said that. I asked how much of a problem was it for our society and, when it does happen, is our current justice system up to the task of dealing with it?

Still don't see why keeping men out of the discussion of fighting for their rights or against male oppression, how can you possibly say that fighting for men's rights is feminism or imply it. You just said that men who worry about rape are basically insecure or whatever ad hominem you used. This is why feminism makes people sexist.

By "how much of a problem", my reasoning is "very often" = "we need to change something in our culture to better discourage it" while "once in a blue moon" = "this is not so much a cultural issue as an issue for our justice system and the individuals involved".

I still don't see how this pertains feminism at all then. It's Egalitarianism.

My wife, who IS a feminist, has in fact said domestic abuse against men should be taken more seriously without my even prompting her to do so.

Well duh right? according to people like you, she must be a feminist, otherwise she's a sexist.

This is why I ask what feminists you've been talking to and what exactly have they said about violence against men?

You for example, have some extreme opinions on how we should mobilize our police force more towards women's crimes, did I get that wrong? since you did say that these crimes happen more to women did you not? if not then where's the need for feminism again? And you did say that men who feared raped were "worried about their sexuality"? what kind of statement is that?