(April 13, 2014 at 3:27 am)Deidre32 Wrote: Men like this, to me...my experience? They have others they're juggling, as well. Basically telling us one thing, 'I love you,' etc...but meanwhile, they have others they 'entertain,' when we're busy, not around, etc. I hate to sound that way, but the last two guys who would at times 'go silent' on me, had other women they were 'entertaining,' I came to find out. So, to me...silence means either a) the person died and that could be b) the person is stuck under a large object, maybe a tree? and can't get to the phone or c) there are others.
Likely choice is c. That's why I move on the MINUTE I'm ignored. I'm an understanding person, but I expect to be treated with the same respect I give. If not, I'm done.
You deserve the very best. Always remember that.
Thanks, sweetie. You're right; I've often thought of the "other entertainment options" thing, but I have no proof. For a couple of days after this recent freeze out, I thought maybe my boyfriend the Marine had been sent somewhere or something until my Facebook newsfeed informed me of his Candy Crush habit. Something tells me you can't be risking your life in battle while giving it up on Candy Crush... I don't play Candy Crush. Does one normally "give up" lives on that game? It's always seemed so benign!
