(April 28, 2014 at 3:42 pm)Phatt Matt s Wrote:(April 28, 2014 at 3:33 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote: First off, I will respond to any thread I feel like in the open forum. If you want to ask only certain people something, PM those people.
In response to your question: no it does not offend me. It annoys me. Like that question. You ask a question, people say "no," and you ask them if you have offended them. You asked me if you could call my girlfriend. I said no, we had 15 minutes of conversation of you trying to wheedle a way where you could talk to my girlfriend. The answer was and continues to be no.
You do not respect anyone's right to say no. You are not owed a reason why people wouldn't want to receive a call from you. "No" is enough.
I like you Matt. That is why I said you could call me, and gave you my number. I can choose when to talk to you if you call me (like when you tried to call me again at 11:30 at night) and I know that any conversation we have is going to be me practicing boundary control. That is fine with me. I can handle that. But to act like people are being unfair when they don't want you to call them is childish and beneath you.
Dude all you had do do is tell me don't call me after 9:00 pm. You are in a different timezone than me dude! What is your cause of suffering as a result of me?
Do you realize that you just glossed over practically every observation he made, and then blamed him for your lack of self-restraint?
You have issues respecting boundaries, as evidenced by practically every post you've made today. I have issues with people who refuse to respect my boundaries.
So for me, the answer is no. Fuck no. ...and that will never change.
