RE: Next They'll Be Wanting to Burn Them
May 1, 2014 at 6:37 am
(This post was last modified: May 1, 2014 at 6:38 am by Tonus.)
(April 30, 2014 at 8:53 pm)Lek Wrote: The other possibility is that we just don't care about our children which, unfortunately, is often the case.I don't think that's often the case at all. If anything, it's a case of being overprotective as parents. Many parents will not discuss such important matters as sex or drugs with their children, perhaps out of some deranged belief that by not discussing it they cannot learn about it. But making any subject taboo to a teenager is likely to make them even more curious and more determined to learn, even if it's on their own, or from friends of the same age, or via experimentation.
And in my experience, the most likely parents to avoid discussing such important topics with their children are religious parents. At best, most of them will simply use the threat of hellfire or "don't disappoint Jesus" and think that it's enough to do the job, then they are utterly shocked and often devastated when they learn that their child acted the way any misinformed teenager will act.
At worst, these are the same parents who will take action to stop schools from providing children with information on sex and drugs and the possible consequences of indulging in either. So not only do they want to stick their own heads in the sand, they want to keep everyone's kids ignorant, as if not telling them will somehow miraculously stop their sexual drive in its tracks. And they strenuously resist any attempts to provide kids with birth control, or even information about it, which is why in the USA, a country that is largely religious and largely Christian, teen pregnancy and abortion rates are among the highest in the world.
Good job, guys.
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