Well, think about it this way: what are the common denominators in all of this, and what can you do to change it up? I'm guessing you live in a conservative, religious area. Can you move? What about where you're meeting chicks? Maybe you could join a meetup group for something you're interested in, but you've never tried. It's obvious you have to stop trying to meet girls in church. It's not worth it, even for the I Popped A Christian Cherry award. Some of those girls are easier than you think, anyway.
Meet women with common interests. That's my advice.
Meet women with common interests. That's my advice.