(June 15, 2014 at 5:39 am)rexbeccarox Wrote: Well, think about it this way: what are the common denominators in all of this, and what can you do to change it up? I'm guessing you live in a conservative, religious area. Can you move?...
It's obvious you have to stop trying to meet girls in church. It's not worth it, even for the I Popped A Christian Cherry award. Some of those girls are easier than you think, anyway.
I'm South African. This is a religious country. Some nut job in parliament just recently wanted to include religion into the law. This is not unlike what people in the States and elsewhere experience politically. With respect to moving...I'd pretty much have to go to another country and that's well beyond my powers at the moment. Religion in the black community is BIG! So it's not just an issue of quitting meeting girls in church. Outside church does help though.
(June 15, 2014 at 5:39 am)rexbeccarox Wrote: What about where you're meeting chicks? Maybe you could join a meetup group for something you're interested in, but you've never tried...
Meet women with common interests. That's my advice.
I'm going to a meetup right now actually. We'll see how it goes. We just finished ordering some booze. My cousins just got told they're not allowed to wear pants. For females it's a dress or skirt because of the host's religious views. It's a blend of African and Christian views. They creep me out.
8000 years before Jesus, the Egyptian god Horus said, "I am the way, the truth, the life."
