(June 21, 2014 at 10:20 pm)zanOTK Wrote:(June 21, 2014 at 9:51 pm)Losty Wrote: Why should there be a cause or a cure? What is the cure for heterosexuality?
If you're a lady, the answer is Luckie
Everything has a cause. And thus, with the right technology, can be cured. But, the real question is, does it need to be cured? It's within the realm of possibility to "cure" somebody of being white (we can't do it right now, but it's possible that we could one day). But why would you? It's their skin color, it's part of who they are. Now, if they felt like they'd be happier if they had a different skin color, then fine. But most people probably wouldn't do it.
A very good friend of mine has shared his experiences with being, as they say, 100% gay, and dating a man who slowly oscillates from 80% gay to 80% straight on a time scale of around 2 years to get back to where he started.
I don't know if it is that complex for you, but after what my friend has been through, he's found total honesty about where he is, his boyfriend being the same, has resulted in them making a go of it for several years.
His companion has been with women during their time together, it is my impression he is far less forthcoming with them, for some reason, and that has led to far more problems than anything else.
Maybe he has to be that way with women, I don't know if any would go with him if they knew, but considering the disasters that always result when he does it the way he does, I have to wonder.
I don't know if this helps, my thoughts are with you either way.
