Living in My car In a Church Parking Lot...

[Ravenshire]

I'm just getting responses that are about what I can do to survive.

Bullshit. I personally gave you advice for how to finish your degree. You are choosing to ignore it.

Ami, You've been given tons of advice with nothing but "I can't" for answers. I'm beginning to believe you're confusing can't with won't There is no reason you can't move back to Jersey and start over. You already set up a donation site asking for $60,000 to completely pay off your debt. I'd bet that asking for a smaller amount, after moving in with family, to help you get re-established, not debt-free, would go over far better.

I have to say though, with the "I can't/won't" attitude, even if you get the $60,000 you'll probably still be neck deep in it.

For fucks sake, I'd be willing (and I'll bet many here would) to chip in for a bus ticket to get you back to Jersey. But, no way in hell I'll give to someone who want out of debt on the backs of other and is unwilling to to anything to help herself.