(July 7, 2014 at 7:50 pm)LogicOrDie Wrote:(July 7, 2014 at 7:34 pm)Blackout Wrote: I used to think like that, but one day I became happy.
Hmm can you tell me more about how you became happy ? Did something in particular trigger it or was it an unconcious process that ended up with you you being happy out of the blue ?
Well I was depressed quite often. Worrying too much about it will only make things worse, searching for slow improvement is the best thing you can do to make yourself happier. Just don't go out there thinking you have to suddenly become happy... Do things slow, connect with people that feel alike, meet people with similar interests, invest in an hobby you find interesting. For me I was unhappy and slowly got into the middle, kinda like between unhappiness and happiness, I was not happy but definitely was better, I started hanging out with my friends more and created deeper bonds with a lot of people that I still treasure today... The biggest marks in making me happier were probably, even though I can't remember the chronological order, 1 - entering the best public university in law studies 2- I started dating my girlfriend and we still are together and in love 3- I started to value small things and lowered my expectations, there are people so worse than me out there.
Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you
