(July 12, 2014 at 8:10 pm)whateverist Wrote:It could be, and social factors most likely.(July 12, 2014 at 6:25 pm)Jenny A Wrote: No, I doubt I'd be surprised by the number of men who enjoy rape fantasies, or even the number of women (smaller but still significant) who enjoy fantasizing about being raped (doesn't mean they'd enjoy the real deal). There's a whole porn market devoted to this topic. But I don't think it's as natural as consensual sex, at least not if natural means normative or even more commonly desired.
That's funny. From my own experience, I would have guessed more women entertain such fantasies. I don't personally find it erotic though I do enjoy some dominance fantasies. (The difference being, in my fantasies my partners pretty much have to beg for it,)
It would be interesting to know if there have been studies on this and whether it might be a function of age or even of the times into which one is born.
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