RE: Spare the rod, spoil the child
July 15, 2014 at 5:09 am
(This post was last modified: July 15, 2014 at 5:10 am by Jacob(smooth).)
(July 15, 2014 at 5:00 am)Marsellus Wallace Wrote: I agree in what you're saying , but its the line between a slap or beating the shit out of him that people don't see and if you say ok for that little slap , what says I won't do it twice or trice or 50 times.
Yeah, that's one reason we went with the no smacking policy . There is the danger of creep or escalation. Although most people I know grew up with parents who smacked but stayed the right side of the line...
Also my daughter told us once she was going to report us to the police and have us arrested for giving her lamb casserole for dinner (which THAT DAY she didn't like). Our neighbors are both Police officers. I was so tempted to ask one of them to pop around in uniform and take her complaint down!
I should add that both my children are some of the nicest, most polite kids you will ever meet. But by God it takes some work. Parenting, the hardest ob in the world and the one you don't get a lick of training for!!
"Peace is a lie, there is only passion.
Through passion, I gain strength.
Through strength, I gain power.
Through power, I gain victory.
Through victory, my chains are broken."
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Through passion, I gain strength.
Through strength, I gain power.
Through power, I gain victory.
Through victory, my chains are broken."
Sith code