Yes,I hate, coldly and with utter contempt,but without the wish to actually harm.To harm the objects of my hatred would cause pain to others collaterally,and that is morally unacceptable to me.There is also the matter of my vestigal Catholic conscience which would no doubt punish me.
There are however two people upon whose graves I look forward to urinating.
The cause of my hatred is hurt at a visceral level which I have been unable to forgive. These emotions are deep and involuntary. I do not recommend abiding hatred. Like guilt, I believe hatred is essentially self destructive. In my opinion, forgiveness [of oneself and others] is far healthier and personally empowering,but sometimes just too bloody hard.
There are however two people upon whose graves I look forward to urinating.
The cause of my hatred is hurt at a visceral level which I have been unable to forgive. These emotions are deep and involuntary. I do not recommend abiding hatred. Like guilt, I believe hatred is essentially self destructive. In my opinion, forgiveness [of oneself and others] is far healthier and personally empowering,but sometimes just too bloody hard.