(August 20, 2014 at 6:16 am)Michael Wrote: But to describe sex as 'entertainment' and 'sport', and separate it out from intimacy, certainly would appear to me to lack something vital for any marriage.
Whoa there champ. While I did make the distinction between sex and intimacy, I never said you can't enjoy both at the same time. I'll spell it out. Sex is not intimacy and intimacy is not sex. If it were, you could not have an intimate evening with a loved one without at least getting a blow job. Intimacy is mental and can be found in many places. Sex is physical and while it can be coupled with intimacy, it certainly doesn't have to be. Just as intimacy can be coupled with sex.
The best sex you'll ever have is with a no expectations, no regrets partner. Especially if she/he is a little (or maybe even a lot) on the wild side in the sack.
I recommend everyone have a fuck buddy, at least until they're married and I encourage open relationships within marriage. It takes mature attitudes to handle open relationships, but you shouldn't be getting married without a mature attitude to begin with.
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