RE: Should man rule over women for women’s own good?
August 28, 2014 at 4:27 pm
(This post was last modified: August 28, 2014 at 4:28 pm by orangebox21.)
(August 26, 2014 at 4:36 pm)Esquilax Wrote:
We can certainly discuss your above objections to the treatment of women. This is however a separate line of discussion from the roles of husbands and wives.
(August 26, 2014 at 4:36 pm)Esquilax Wrote:
1. Biblically defined roles directly encourage abuse.
2. Biblically defined roles offer easy justification for abuse.
3. Biblically defined roles furnish no positive effects at all.
4. Biblically defined roles are huge, sweeping generalizations.
5. If huge, sweeping generalizations work for an individual it is best that he/she enters into said generalizations of his/her free will.
6. If huge, sweeping generalizations do not work for an individual, then said generalizations are nothing but a trap.
.:/ If biblically defined roles offer a chance for abuse and provide no positive effects at all, then they are more harmful than anything else, and are morally wrong.
Accurate representation?
(August 26, 2014 at 4:36 pm)Esquilax Wrote: So what say you of the fact that the bible just lets it all happen?I'm not understanding your argument here. Are you asking why God allows people to operate outside of His commandments?
(August 26, 2014 at 4:36 pm)Esquilax Wrote: Oh, okay then. I misread that, my apologies.Apology accepted. I should have been more clear.
(August 27, 2014 at 7:24 pm)Esquilax Wrote: I find the idea of interpreting the "spirit" of any commandment inherently frightening, because it seems so often the "spirit" of the command aligns perfectly with what the reader already thinks of the issue.
Fair enough, I'll rephrase. A husband and a wife are looking to purchase a home. The husband likes home A more and the wife likes home B more. Following the Biblical roles for husbands and wives how does the decision making process go? How does the decision making process go for an atheist couple?
(August 27, 2014 at 7:24 pm)Esquilax Wrote:Quote:"22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord."Given what the lord does to people, that could mean literally anything, up to and including submitting to eternal physical torment.
I understand your point. Is the command to submit for the believer or the unbeliever? And is the physical torment for the believer or the unbeliever? Does God call anyone to willingly submit to eternal torture? In other words, for your argument to follow, God would call believers to willingly submit to eternal punishment.
(August 27, 2014 at 7:24 pm)Esquilax Wrote:Quote:"25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her."You can love someone and still be completely harmful to them. Actions and emotions don't have to align, especially not when you've been given divine writ to act in a certain way.
I'm not understanding your point here. Please clarify. I'm assuming by harmful you mean needlessly harmful (certainly there are times that the most loving thing we can do will cause some kind of harm such as intervening in the life of an addict).
I agree that emotions and actions don't always line up. However, can a person be 'emotionally' in love with a person while at the same moment cause him/her needles harm? Maybe I'm not understanding your argument.
(August 27, 2014 at 7:24 pm)Esquilax Wrote:That may have happened but my intention was to seek your understanding of the terms. I was beginning to get the impression that you were defining submission to include all acts. I can gather from other posts that you do.Quote:Please also define the words 'submit' and 'gave himself up.'Why bother? You're just going to put some bizarre spin on it the moment I do.
(August 27, 2014 at 5:02 pm)Luckie Wrote: As a woman, Esquilaxs woman to be exact-- I choose to whom I submit my entire being, mind body, and heart.
And that submission, we both agree, in no way makes you of any less value/worth/equal than him [Esquilax].
(August 27, 2014 at 5:02 pm)Luckie Wrote: And thankfully he and I are progressive enough to recognize that both our viewpoints equally matter, so the resolution will be equally agreed upon. Sometimes I will submit to his best judgement, and he to mine, but no one Owns supreme position over the other.Well said, and congrats to the two of you on the maturity of your relationship.
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and that He is the one spoken of in the Bible...
would you repent of your sins and place your faith in Jesus Christ?