Should man rule over women for women’s own good?

[FatAndFaithless]

"And that submission, we both agree, in no way makes you of any less value/worth/equal than him [Esquilax]."

Obviously not. But she makes that submission willingly. She is in no way obligated or coerced or intimidated into it.
Women don't have to be submissive to be good wives or good people or good women.

And they certainly don't have a "duty" to do it.