Should man rule over women for women’s own good?

[Losty]

Yes, I already understood all of that. I happened to have been a nice submissive Christian wife for several years. The thing is that something commanded (regardless of who commands it) cannot be voluntary. It is either not voluntary or it is not commanded. Also, I know Christians like to live in their fake world of perfection, but in. Reality the husband often does demand this submission. As well as the church, family, friends, and religious community of the woman. If a woman chooses to submit to her husband it should be a beautiful act of trust and loyalty, not a terrifying nightmare of religious coercion. I'm not saying all Christian women who submit to their husbands have the nightmare version, I'm just saying that it is very very real. Every woman has the right to choose and if she should choose not to submit to her husband then she's still a good person and just as good of a woman as one who does submit.