(September 19, 2014 at 3:24 pm)CapnAwesome Wrote: Unless she continues to harass you, you can be the mature party. You made her uncomfortable and her outlet was trying to publicly shame you, which is wrong. She made you uncomfortable and your outlet was an attempt to get her fired. If I were to say which one of those is the less moral position, it would be yours. Maybe rather than trying to enact some sort of revenge on the woman by going to her superiors you could apologize for making her uncomfortable to start with and deal with it privately.
Wait... so Lemon privately going to HR was worse than her publicly shaming him? I totally disagree with that part. I also don't think for a second he should apologize to her, rather she should apologize to him. I don't think he was necessarily going to HR to exact revenge. I don't blame him for not wanting to see this woman, and it was in HR's best interest to know about what went on.
Lemon, I think you should just be the bigger person. Don't sit anywhere near her, and maybe try to make a friend or two in your class. People like her are toxic, and eventually she'll probably lose her job due to her lack of professionalism.
Nolite te bastardes carborundorum.
