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I need some advice
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RE: I need some advice
(September 19, 2014 at 3:24 pm)CapnAwesome Wrote: Unless she continues to harass you, you can be the mature party. You made her uncomfortable and her outlet was trying to publicly shame you, which is wrong. She made you uncomfortable and your outlet was an attempt to get her fired. If I were to say which one of those is the less moral position, it would be yours. Maybe rather than trying to enact some sort of revenge on the woman by going to her superiors you could apologize for making her uncomfortable to start with and deal with it privately.

How do you deal privately with someone that publicly shames you? If she was mature and came to me privately it would be a different matter.

Just to give a bit more detail on the situation, thios woman has been noted several times for being openly disruptive to the class, and I demonstrated this afternoon that those "weird questions" I have helped prepare me aptly for my job when I was double jacking with a agent on the floor today and was forced to take his call do to technical issues. Something most in my class have openly said they could not do. Also quitting is not a option do to my financial situation.
To-morrow, and to-morrow, and to-morrow,
Creeps in this petty pace from day to day,
To the last syllable of recorded time;
And all our yesterdays have lighted fools
The way to dusty death. Out, out, brief candle!
Life's but a walking shadow, a poor player,
That struts and frets his hour upon the stage,
And then is heard no more. It is a tale
Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury,
Signifying nothing.
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I need some advice - by Lemonvariable72 - September 19, 2014 at 3:16 pm
RE: I need some advice - by Cato - September 19, 2014 at 3:21 pm
RE: I need some advice - by CapnAwesome - September 19, 2014 at 3:24 pm
RE: I need some advice - by rexbeccarox - September 19, 2014 at 3:30 pm
RE: I need some advice - by Lemonvariable72 - September 19, 2014 at 5:17 pm
RE: I need some advice - by CapnAwesome - September 20, 2014 at 3:41 am
RE: I need some advice - by Aoi Magi - September 19, 2014 at 3:37 pm
RE: I need some advice - by fr0d0 - September 19, 2014 at 6:22 pm
RE: I need some advice - by Lemonvariable72 - September 19, 2014 at 6:39 pm
RE: I need some advice - by Minimalist - September 19, 2014 at 6:24 pm
RE: I need some advice - by Little lunch - September 19, 2014 at 7:34 pm
RE: I need some advice - by ShaMan - September 19, 2014 at 7:35 pm
RE: I need some advice - by Thumpalumpacus - September 19, 2014 at 8:13 pm
RE: I need some advice - by pocaracas - September 20, 2014 at 4:00 am
RE: I need some advice - by Lemonvariable72 - September 20, 2014 at 1:46 pm
RE: I need some advice - by pocaracas - September 20, 2014 at 5:32 pm
RE: I need some advice - by Lemonvariable72 - September 20, 2014 at 7:27 pm
RE: I need some advice - by CapnAwesome - September 21, 2014 at 2:28 am
RE: I need some advice - by Thumpalumpacus - September 21, 2014 at 8:10 am
RE: I need some advice - by CapnAwesome - September 21, 2014 at 9:45 am
RE: I need some advice - by Thumpalumpacus - September 21, 2014 at 7:57 pm
RE: I need some advice - by Lemonvariable72 - September 21, 2014 at 10:00 am
RE: I need some advice - by Little lunch - September 21, 2014 at 3:29 am
RE: I need some advice - by Drich - September 22, 2014 at 12:37 am
RE: I need some advice - by Darkstar - September 22, 2014 at 12:51 am
RE: I need some advice - by Lemonvariable72 - September 22, 2014 at 7:35 am
RE: I need some advice - by Drich - September 22, 2014 at 9:42 am
RE: I need some advice - by Lemonvariable72 - September 22, 2014 at 10:56 am
RE: I need some advice - by Drich - September 22, 2014 at 11:42 pm
RE: I need some advice - by Whateverist - September 22, 2014 at 1:39 am
RE: I need some advice - by SteelCurtain - September 22, 2014 at 10:25 am
RE: I need some advice - by Little lunch - September 22, 2014 at 1:16 pm
RE: I need some advice - by Thumpalumpacus - September 23, 2014 at 12:22 am
RE: I need some advice - by The Grand Nudger - September 23, 2014 at 12:30 am

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