I need some advice

[CapnAwesome]

I don't really understand the point of these threads. Are you really looking for advice or just validation for what you did? You pretty much are arguing with all the advice that isn't just supporting what you did. What's the point? If you feel like you did the right thing, what do you really want advice about?

Also what you did is not the right tactic to deal with bullying. Neither is ignoring it. What I'm suggesting is both the mature, moral and probably the best way to get the woman of your back. You are free to ignore it of course, but next time you want to just justify your own actions maybe you shouldn't disguise that as a cry for advice. Also it makes you look waaaay oversensitive to me. Which kind of makes the whole narrative make a lot more sense. Also to the part about you not publically shaming her, you are, on the internet. You insulted her appearance, and basically came of as just as insulting as she is. What if someone from your work finds this thread. It's hardly impossible.