Deism: I don't get it

[abaris]

Thank you all, that's most interesting

I don't have any problem with deists, I'm sure I could have married one too! No way I could marry a religious. I learned a long time ago it's a bad idea. Went out with one and it totally did my head in. Not trying to be mean, some people it may not bother, but personally it grinded my gears too much.

I understand it a little better now I think.

I dated an alcoholic some twenty years ago. That was enough of a losing battle to last me a lifetime.