(December 16, 2014 at 10:37 am)Nope Wrote: For some reason, many people think that a person's fantasy individual is the person that they would gravitate toward in real life. I don't think that is always true. Attraction isn't just physical. Many things form part of why someone is sexually attractive to another person. My husband's humor and just overall kind personality is why I find him sexually attractive.
This is what I've learnt about myself, over the years -- that physical attraction doesn't seem to be as intense when the interpersonal attractors are tepid -- and that sexy comes from inside.