(December 18, 2014 at 11:01 pm)Alice Wrote: It mattered a lot more at one point in my life... but it's the list of what people say about you that really gets me
I love seeing more on that list.
I, too, occasionally watch the rep, and more often watch my kudoes. The reps I have come to take as what they are: a sign of overall, general decency and value to fellow posters. Kudoes are more of an instant sign, without reading, that my post is being read.
But even better is when I am responded to. Just like in normal, real life convo. It's nice to be listened to, and fit in. And I try to offer such thoughtful responses where I think I can, if something compels me to.
"For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring." - Carl Sagan