She Keeps Sucking The Life Out of Me

[The Grand Nudger]

I'm not backing away. Although you claim to have waved the white flag, you seem unable to give me the last word.

The last word is for a conversation that ends.....I thought I mentioned awhile back that I wasn't interested in seeing the end of this conversation?

No, the difference between a grocery store and a strip club is not nebulous.

To you, but isn't it possible that this is an expression of your own sexuality? Maybe it's checkout girls..and not strippers, that rev my engine?

Among other things, it matters that you know you'd likely get shot down by the girl at the checkout and publicly embarrassed,

So, happens to guys all the time..doesn;t seem to stop us from being "tempted". Does the prospect of humiliation make your penis retreat?

but at the strip club they'll pretend to be interested as long as you have money.

Coke works better...I'm always explaining this to people.

False dichotomy. Some environments are more tempting than others.

Sure, to you. That list will be different for me. You're imagining that a strip club is the tempting place when, for me, this is simply not the case. Strippers don't hold my fidelity between their tits, rgr?

That's why you go to strip clubs rather than hanging out at grocery stores.

I spend more time looking at checkout girls, personally. If I had to guess...I';d chalk it up to our relative familiarity. Strippers just don;t have the wow effect on me. They're pretty girls (mostly) - but I'm used to them...so whatever allure or temptation they may hold in your mind just doesn't exist in mine. Is that difficult for you to conceptualize? That what turns you on doesn't turn me on? That in order to maintain -my- fidelity, if it were an issue of avoidance...I'd have to avoid grocery stores, libraries, and zoos - rather than strip clubs?

LOL... would a lap dance tempt me to cheat? A lap dance is cheating IMO.

Cool, and the naked bit..is that the temptation then? Is that the baited hook. They dangle their ass in front of you, and like a fish, you'd bite?

I wouldn't want another man pawing at my wife even if she kept her clothes on, and likewise she wouldn't like me getting lap dances. We do those things to each other and are quite happy with it. We think this is a loving marriage.

Probably, but again, birds of a feather. It would surprise me if you were in a successful marriage with someone whollly different from yourself in this regard.

You somehow think that in a loving marriage the spouses are apart from each other getting felt up by strangers but keeping their clothes on, then coming together at the end of the night for intercourse.

Sounds more like you're repressed id fantasizing about how the other half lives. Is that tempting, to you? When you imagine it, does it seem dirty in a repulsive or attractive way?