She Keeps Sucking The Life Out of Me

[John V]

No more true this time than it was the last time. Granted, you may be qualified to speak about your own life, and your own wife - but the moment you start jacking your "morality" to a picture of me it's gonna get weird quick.

Yes, it got weird all right. Paying a naked woman to touch your dick in a sexual manner isn't cheating - weird.

For you, where is the line? What is cheating?

I go to strip clubs, I enjoy strippers - unapologeticaly.

Nice that you're now being honest, rather than spouting bullshit about hanging out with friends, and check-out girls.

This, to you, seems to suggest that there must be something wrong with me.

Yes, as there's no good reason to pay for something that you can get for free.

Now, this is based on your assertion that you have a great sex life with your wife. If you don't, then the strippers might be more logical, although that scenario presents other issues.

However, When asked whether or not the presence of pussy would cause me to cheat on my wife it's an easy no.

Rather, you lower the bar.

My dick isn't in charge of my marriage. You don't go to strip clubs, in fact...you "avoid temptation" but when asked if the presence of pussy would cause you to cheat on your wife..the answer is"maybe".....

-and somehow..that qualifies -you-...to give -me-....marriage advice?

Yep.

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I find it interesting that AM makes an "exception" if it's the wife's idea to go to a strip club and watch.

As I presume that's a tiny fraction of men going to strip clubs, I just gave it a pass to take it off the table.

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A wife at home who loves you enough to want to give you good sex for free. Even if you enjoy paying a stripper to dance for you.

Why wouldn't you want to devote yourself completely to such a woman - you know, as you likely promised to do when you married her?

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Says who? You?

And most people.

Others would disagree. After all, according to many, the point of marriage is to achieve a union between a man and a woman but there's tens of millions of others who would say it's to achieve a union between any consenting lovers who wish to be married. So it seems there's no unanimous consensus there, either.

It sounds like there's a unanimous consensus that marriage is to be a union, and the strippers weren't there at the ceremony, so they're not part of the union.

Hell, one of my friends can back up my claim.

Yes, out of billions of people, I'm sure there are a few, but I gave it a pass, so you don't need to harp on it.

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Personally I've always found the greatest fault lies with the people who fret over what is wrong with other people. That makes you different than me but I would never claim that what annoys me is the gold standard for assigning fault in others.

The revisionist history going on here is amusing.

I made a post about myself:
http://atheistforums.org/thread-30581-po...#pid833542

All that I said regarding other people is "no one's perfect," which surely isn't controversial.

Then Losty came on and told what's wrong with me and/or my wife:
http://atheistforums.org/thread-30581-po...#pid833657
If your wife doesn't trust you it's something you need to work on. Either you've given her a reason not to trust you, or she has an unhealthy level of jealousy...

Funny that no one told her that my marriage is none of her business.