RE: She Keeps Sucking The Life Out of Me
January 9, 2015 at 10:04 am
(This post was last modified: January 9, 2015 at 10:11 am by The Grand Nudger.)
Just to lay the entirety of my end of this conversation out in a single post, to see if you have anything to say regarding any of it - rather than something to say about me, personally, in absolute ignorance of who I am..here you go.
Both you and I seem to be interested in building the same sort of relationship - one which is grounded in fidelity, love, and mutual respect.
In order to achieve this, I used a very simple strategy and required the same of my partner. I am frank and open about who I am, what I do, and what I expect. I fully acknowledge that I am attracted to females - regardless of whether she is a checkout girl or a stripper.
I do not attempt to "avoid temptation" because I see no practical way to do so. Women are not confined to strip clubs any more than "temptation" is. Instead, I refer to my growing respect and admiration for the women I married - which is pretty much the reason I married her to begin with.
It's easy for me to manage my end of this relationship because it was not built atop a foundation that required me to be something other than who and what I am, or deny some part of myself that plainly exists in order to succeed.
In short, I don't keep my dick in my pants because I ignore my thoughts or keep myself out o a position where I might have those thoughts, but because I keep them in mind...and those thoughts are "I love my wife regardless of whether or not other girls are pretty, and I wouldn't trade any amount of pussy, let alone two lips...for all that I have with my wife".
I'm skeptical of your strategy for some of the reasons above (regarding where one might find temptation, how one could avoid it, and also what "temptation" might somehow, who knows how... compel me to do) -but more than this...I;m skeptical of your strategy because you have explicitly stated that it does not yield the sort of confidence that I have in my own fidelity or my relationship. If I had engaged in this with the foundation you lay claim to, and had attempted to maintain it by avoidance - then I would likely be in the position that you are...which is a position that I do not want to be in.
So, there's all of that....or, you can keep wondering what I do with my dick that I don't tell you about to your hearts content. Questions....comments?
Both you and I seem to be interested in building the same sort of relationship - one which is grounded in fidelity, love, and mutual respect.
In order to achieve this, I used a very simple strategy and required the same of my partner. I am frank and open about who I am, what I do, and what I expect. I fully acknowledge that I am attracted to females - regardless of whether she is a checkout girl or a stripper.
I do not attempt to "avoid temptation" because I see no practical way to do so. Women are not confined to strip clubs any more than "temptation" is. Instead, I refer to my growing respect and admiration for the women I married - which is pretty much the reason I married her to begin with.
It's easy for me to manage my end of this relationship because it was not built atop a foundation that required me to be something other than who and what I am, or deny some part of myself that plainly exists in order to succeed.
In short, I don't keep my dick in my pants because I ignore my thoughts or keep myself out o a position where I might have those thoughts, but because I keep them in mind...and those thoughts are "I love my wife regardless of whether or not other girls are pretty, and I wouldn't trade any amount of pussy, let alone two lips...for all that I have with my wife".
I'm skeptical of your strategy for some of the reasons above (regarding where one might find temptation, how one could avoid it, and also what "temptation" might somehow, who knows how... compel me to do) -but more than this...I;m skeptical of your strategy because you have explicitly stated that it does not yield the sort of confidence that I have in my own fidelity or my relationship. If I had engaged in this with the foundation you lay claim to, and had attempted to maintain it by avoidance - then I would likely be in the position that you are...which is a position that I do not want to be in.
So, there's all of that....or, you can keep wondering what I do with my dick that I don't tell you about to your hearts content. Questions....comments?
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