Quote:No where in my illustration did I refer to a situation where someone is past out, what I refered to is a situation of people hooking up at a bar. And yes in many countries if you have consensual sex with a woman while she is drunk it can be legally considered rape.Citation needed. That doesn't happen anywhere in the world - In fact, both parties can be drunk and have sex. What you're talking about is when someone is so intoxicated that she doesn't know what she's doing (and this is observable by anyone with half a brain) and you have sex with here - Example, a girl who is dizzy, singing out loud and really drunk, would you simply have sex with her knowing how she is?
Quote:Also I made no proposal at all on how to lower the rate of rape, but since you throw around that accusation of rape apologist (which I am not) here are a few ideas on howI didn't but do go on
Quote:1. Clear and reasonable definition of rape. I.even no more pedophilia charges for 19 year old women sleeping with 17 year old guys.I don't see the relevance of this, in my country 16 is enough to have sex with an 18 or 19, for both genders.
Quote:2. Ready and affordable mental health careNot useful, only a posteriori
Quote:3. Proper sex edAlright, this is true - But you are corroborating my point
Quote:4. Classes geared towards mothers who want to teach there sons how to treat women properly.I think it's a duty of both mothers and fathers - And also teach them to not rape other men, since it happens frequently as well
Quote:5. Discouragement of dogmatic feminism, especially in educational intisuations. (Not all feminism by a long shot)I don't see the purpose considering feminists are probably the biggest rape opposer
Quote:This is what I'm talking about, it's all about telling potential victims that they need to defend themselves - Do you think that, we, as men, should all be encouraged to have self defence to prevent being mugged? Well, some men have, but it's not socially required to do so - Why do you think it's up to the victim to learn defence? Should children be taught as well to prevent pedophilia? Should all married women be taught in case of domestic abuse?
6. Free self defense classes for youngood women.
Quote:7. Clear positioning of the fact that all genders have equal rights and dealing incidents of sexism and harassment in a expedient and reasonable manner in schools and work places.correct
Quote:I think those implementations would go along to reducing rape.I have a better idea - Do you know why rape happens? Because rapists can get away with it - It's true, any criminal will commit more crimes if he knows he'll get away with it, most rapes are not even reported - If we started prosecuting rapists properly instead of asking victims what they were wearing or how much they drank it would make wonders to tell all potential rapists that society and the state is watching these women (and men too) and safeguarding them. So the first problem would be (1) To tell victims they should report it, because many are afraid of repercussions or not being believed (2) To tell them it's not their fault because many become depressed and blame themselves (3) And finally, start caring less about clothes, makeup and amount of alcohol or even physical beauty and instead ask - "Did you consent to sex or not?". If you are a rape victim you need to be a young woman with bruises and look skinny/attractive - Everything else is distrusted by cops as not being rapeable.
Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you