It's very irresponsible of these people. They must know that if they write the accepting Jesus stuff in her stead, she's probably still technically unsaved. But she might erroneously think that she's all clear and forget to re-accept Jesus when she is older, and end up in hell.
The fool hath said in his heart, There is a God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good.
Psalm 14, KJV revised edition