@BP and CP I'm sorry that you were treated that way by your individual churches in my opinion they should have contacted you to find out why you made the decision you did. I do have a question though why did you want them to contact you, if it were me I would not have wanted them to but then that's me. What would you have done if they had contacted you, from the way you talk about them and other christians it seems to me that would have been a very confrontational conversation from both sides and maybe that was what they wanted to avoid. I have a hard time understanding why you would want people to contact you when you had rejected what they really believe, I certainly do not know why they did not contact you but maybe they were hurt by your decision. I would have been and I believe I would have contacted you to try and understand your decision.
God loves those who believe and those who do not and the same goes for me, you have no choice in this matter. That puts the matter of total free will to rest.