(April 4, 2015 at 1:06 am)Brakeman Wrote:(March 23, 2015 at 5:13 am)rexbeccarox Wrote: I think I opened the floodgates, and I couldn't be happier about it! We are now well into communication. Thanks (almost) everybody
No one knows how this will play out, the storyline hasn't yet been written.
My recommendation is to put your very best effort into it every day with attention to how he sees you in his eyes and how you see him with yours. What I mean by that is to think often about what you look like though his eyes, and think often about struggles within the man that you don't see. My wife of twenty years didn't catch me with her beauty or her "cooking," she earned my eternal devotion by her accomplished effort to understand me and to accept me when I'm a little bit wrong. (Yes, sometimes guys can be wrong)
Try to be the woman he needs and he willl usually try to be the man you need. Never go into a relationship half-heartedly or fearfully.
"Go Large or go Home" as they say.
I'm rooting for your happiness either way!
Thanks Brakes. He'll be here in three weeks!!!!!
Yes- THREE WEEKS!!
We're going to see how it goes. If it goes well, he'll be moving here. If it doesn't go like that, I'm just glad he's back in my life, in whatever capacity. Yay!!!