Being gay is a fetish.

[emjay]

Me people? What people. I am gay. I'm happy to be gay. I'm not going to change for anyone, not for religion, not for peer pressure, not for anything. I'm just saying how I believe it develops.

And I told you that's not how it works, offering myself as an example. I have homosexual friends who share a story similar to mine. Yet you keep trying to push the same demonstrably false PoV. Hence, troll or poe.

I've already stated in my post that if conscious choice is involved it would be different for different people:

"Whether any conscious choice is involved in that process I do not know - that might differ between individuals - but what I do know is that if there was a choice it was an uninformed choice - like most childhood choices are."


You're saying you had no choice at all. Fair enough. I'm saying that I may have had a choice in some abstract way on the second but not the first question - in that one way or another I focused more on the gay side and over time came to see that as my identity.