RE: Ask a bored, formerly Jewish, overly opinionated submissive
May 18, 2015 at 2:11 pm
(This post was last modified: May 18, 2015 at 2:12 pm by Alex K.)
(May 18, 2015 at 2:07 pm)Saxmoof Wrote: A fellow submissive! I will now go off on my own rant but phrased as questions so as to technically not hijack the thread
Does fifty shades of grey annoy you as much as me? It's clearly written by someone who has no knowledge or interest in BDSM and aimed at people in that same boat. It gives the impression that Dominants are dominant because they were abused as children and Submissives are submissive because they have tragically low self-esteem - this is the way a vanilla person would try to rationalise BDSM, by thinking to themselves, "what would make me want to hurt someone/be hurt by someone" when really there is no rational explanation - it's just an innate desire we have. It pissed me off so much when there was all this media hype around it and you had all these vanilla people passing off their ignorant opinions on fluffy day time talk shows, they could have just asked a dominant or submissive onto their show - we're real people, not just a porn category! It wouldn't have been so hard to find one of us
Hey, it even annoys me like hell - and I have nothing whatsoever to do with the BDSM scene.
The fool hath said in his heart, There is a God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good.
Psalm 14, KJV revised edition
