First, I provide a link that may help you: http://godlessgrrl.blogspot.com/2008/11/...sited.html it's an article on missionary dating by an atheist blogger, I think it may help.
Granted I can't know your situation, but I do know that I would probably be unable to date a theist. As biased as that may seem, I don't know if I could possible connect with someone who doesn't critically analyze their belief systems. I understand you love her, but I don't adhere to this notion of "true love". If all she wants to do is save you, and you don't want to be saved...there's not going to be an easy solution. This is an important issue and if you can't get past it, it's a deal breaker. I'd break up with her. You can try to reason with her all you want, but it's simply mind boggling how trapped people can be in their religion. There is probably nothing you can do or say to shake her belief. As said before me, clinging to her may just be prolonging the inevitable.
Granted I can't know your situation, but I do know that I would probably be unable to date a theist. As biased as that may seem, I don't know if I could possible connect with someone who doesn't critically analyze their belief systems. I understand you love her, but I don't adhere to this notion of "true love". If all she wants to do is save you, and you don't want to be saved...there's not going to be an easy solution. This is an important issue and if you can't get past it, it's a deal breaker. I'd break up with her. You can try to reason with her all you want, but it's simply mind boggling how trapped people can be in their religion. There is probably nothing you can do or say to shake her belief. As said before me, clinging to her may just be prolonging the inevitable.
"The way to see by faith is to shut the eye of reason." Benjamin Franklin
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